P.S. I couldn't find my camera, so all I have is a low quality cell phone pic...sorry.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Change is good.
I decided it was time for a change, so I went to Nikki at Naturally Yours in Spanish Fork, and told her to chop it off. It's a little different having short hair and bangs for the first time in a while, but I absolutely love it!! Thanks again Nikki!!!
P.S. I couldn't find my camera, so all I have is a low quality cell phone pic...sorry.
P.S. I couldn't find my camera, so all I have is a low quality cell phone pic...sorry.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Killing Them with Kindness
It really works. Don't believe me? Next time someone is rude, obnoxious, or negative be kind to them. When someone yells at you, don't yell back...and apologize to them. You'll be surprised what kind of outcomes you can get. I've been experimenting with this lately and I, myself have been quite surprised at what it does.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
24 - 18 = 6
YES!!! It has been eighteen months since I have seen/talked to the love of my life and my best friend. That means that I only have six more until I see him again! I am so flippin excited and a little nervous, what if I have forgotten everything. Like how to be in a relationship that consists of more than letters and an occasional email? Ha ha, I'm sure it'll be just fine...I mean he'll be in awkward missionary mode for a little bit, right? That should give me time to remember. One thing I am definately excited for is to see this again, it's a sight that I have missed over the past year and a half (I know it's only an air guitar, but Danny always had some sort of guitar in his hand). I love him!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Lessons Learned
This is going to be a really long post. Read it if you want, but beware. It's just another product of my late night thinking sessions. Here is a partial list of some lessons I've learned in the past few years of my life.
Lesson 1 – no complaining allowed.
Complaining is ugly. It is hideous. Most of all, it is contagious. It brings about dark clouds in your life and the lives of anyone around you. Just don’t do it.
Lesson 2 – “happiness, like faith, is a decision.”
It’s EASY to walk around with your head down, feeling sorry for yourself. It’s EASY to get depressed to the point that all you want to do is sit in bed and cry. It’s EASY to feel that you have nothing to smile about. I don’t like easy things. Happiness is a decision that only you can make, and sometimes it’s HARD to choose. You can choose to have a good day or a bad day. You can choose to smile or frown. You can choose to be a pleasant person to be around, or the person that everyone tries their best to avoid. Happiness can sometimes be a hard decision to make, but I’ve always enjoyed a challenge.
Lesson 3 – prayer is necessary in times of distress and times of joy.All of my life I have prayed when I needed something or when times were tough for ME. If I lost something, I prayed to find it. If I was sad, I prayed to be comforted. If I needed a blessing, I prayed for one. If I was hungry, I prayed to bless the food as quick as I could so I could get to eating. What I have failed to do is pray when I don’t need things. It took experiencing the hardest years of my life to figure out that I need to “pray ALWAYS, that you might come of conqueror…” (D&C 10:5). If you want to succeed when times are hard, or when they are pleasant…you’ve got to pray. It may have been in front of me the whole time, but I’m glad I finally picked up on that…twenty-one years later ;)
Lesson 4 – if you want to find yourself, you’ve got to lose yourself.
This sounds a little bit oxymoronic. However, it’s true. Service is the best, perhaps the only, cure all. Get caught up in it and your life will never be the same. Seriously, make a daily goal to go out of your way to do a kind deed for someone else, perhaps a complete stranger, and see how much better your days are.
Lesson 5 – cry. cry. cry.
Sometimes, especially for girls, crying is a miracle worker. Sometimes crying even when you don’t know why you’re crying, makes your world seem like a brighter, better place. Sometimes it’s good to even put your face in your pillow and scream as loud as you can. A little stress release is wonderful.
Lesson 6 – true, pure love is rare. when you find it, hold on to it with all you’ve got.
Self explanatory. Has anybody ever said something to you that just made you think “wow that is the most honest, loving, unexpected thing I’ve ever heard.” That’s when you know, that’s when I knew, that I had to hold on to this person with everything I have and make sure I am the type of person who deserves their company and friendship.
Lesson 7 – God has a plan and He knows what He’s doing.
Yep, He really does.
Lesson 7.1 – “come what may and love it.”Life sucks sometimes, trials are inevitable. However, like I said in lesson 7, God knows what He’s doing. He won’t put us through trials or hard times that we don’t have the strength to get through. So make the best of them, and learn something from them. “Come what may, and LOVE it.”
Lesson 8 (perhaps my favorite) – Sunday will come.
From a book written by Elder Wirthlin titled Press On.
“I think of how dark that Friday was when Christ was lifted up on the cross. On that terrible Friday the earth shook and grew dark. Fearsome storms lashed at the earth.
Those evil men who sought His life rejoiced. Now that Jesus was no more, surely those who followed Him would disperse. On that day, His enemies stood triumphant.
On that Friday the veil of the temple was rent in twain.
Mary Magdalene and Mary, the mother of Jesus, were both overcome with grief and despair. The superb Man they had loved and honored hung lifeless upon the cross. On that Friday, the Apostles were devastated. Jesus, their Savior-the man who had walked on water and raised the dead- was Himself at the mercy of wicked men. They watched helplessly as He was overcome by those who hated Him.
On that Friday the Savior of mankind was humiliated and bruised, abused and reviled.
It was a Friday filled with devastating, consuming sorrow that gnawed at the souls of those who loved and honored the Son of God.
I think that of all the days since the beginning of this world’s history, that Friday was the darkest.
But the gloom of that sad day did not endure.
The despair did not linger because on Sunday, the resurrected Lord burst the bands of death. He escaped the grave and appeared gloriously triumphant as the Savior of all mankind.
And in an instant the eyes that had been filled with ever-flowing tears dried. The lips that had whispered prayers of distress and grief now filled the air with wondrous praise-for Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, stood before them as the first-fruits of the Resurrections, the proof that death is merely the beginning of a new and wondrous existence.
Each of us will have our own Fridays-those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays.
But I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death-Sunday will come.
In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come.
No matter our depression, no matter our grief, Sunday will come.
In this life or the next, Sunday will come."
Lesson 1 – no complaining allowed.
Complaining is ugly. It is hideous. Most of all, it is contagious. It brings about dark clouds in your life and the lives of anyone around you. Just don’t do it.
Lesson 2 – “happiness, like faith, is a decision.”
It’s EASY to walk around with your head down, feeling sorry for yourself. It’s EASY to get depressed to the point that all you want to do is sit in bed and cry. It’s EASY to feel that you have nothing to smile about. I don’t like easy things. Happiness is a decision that only you can make, and sometimes it’s HARD to choose. You can choose to have a good day or a bad day. You can choose to smile or frown. You can choose to be a pleasant person to be around, or the person that everyone tries their best to avoid. Happiness can sometimes be a hard decision to make, but I’ve always enjoyed a challenge.
Lesson 3 – prayer is necessary in times of distress and times of joy.All of my life I have prayed when I needed something or when times were tough for ME. If I lost something, I prayed to find it. If I was sad, I prayed to be comforted. If I needed a blessing, I prayed for one. If I was hungry, I prayed to bless the food as quick as I could so I could get to eating. What I have failed to do is pray when I don’t need things. It took experiencing the hardest years of my life to figure out that I need to “pray ALWAYS, that you might come of conqueror…” (D&C 10:5). If you want to succeed when times are hard, or when they are pleasant…you’ve got to pray. It may have been in front of me the whole time, but I’m glad I finally picked up on that…twenty-one years later ;)
Lesson 4 – if you want to find yourself, you’ve got to lose yourself.
This sounds a little bit oxymoronic. However, it’s true. Service is the best, perhaps the only, cure all. Get caught up in it and your life will never be the same. Seriously, make a daily goal to go out of your way to do a kind deed for someone else, perhaps a complete stranger, and see how much better your days are.
Lesson 5 – cry. cry. cry.
Sometimes, especially for girls, crying is a miracle worker. Sometimes crying even when you don’t know why you’re crying, makes your world seem like a brighter, better place. Sometimes it’s good to even put your face in your pillow and scream as loud as you can. A little stress release is wonderful.
Lesson 6 – true, pure love is rare. when you find it, hold on to it with all you’ve got.
Self explanatory. Has anybody ever said something to you that just made you think “wow that is the most honest, loving, unexpected thing I’ve ever heard.” That’s when you know, that’s when I knew, that I had to hold on to this person with everything I have and make sure I am the type of person who deserves their company and friendship.
Lesson 7 – God has a plan and He knows what He’s doing.
Yep, He really does.
Lesson 7.1 – “come what may and love it.”Life sucks sometimes, trials are inevitable. However, like I said in lesson 7, God knows what He’s doing. He won’t put us through trials or hard times that we don’t have the strength to get through. So make the best of them, and learn something from them. “Come what may, and LOVE it.”
Lesson 8 (perhaps my favorite) – Sunday will come.
From a book written by Elder Wirthlin titled Press On.
“I think of how dark that Friday was when Christ was lifted up on the cross. On that terrible Friday the earth shook and grew dark. Fearsome storms lashed at the earth.
Those evil men who sought His life rejoiced. Now that Jesus was no more, surely those who followed Him would disperse. On that day, His enemies stood triumphant.
On that Friday the veil of the temple was rent in twain.
Mary Magdalene and Mary, the mother of Jesus, were both overcome with grief and despair. The superb Man they had loved and honored hung lifeless upon the cross. On that Friday, the Apostles were devastated. Jesus, their Savior-the man who had walked on water and raised the dead- was Himself at the mercy of wicked men. They watched helplessly as He was overcome by those who hated Him.
On that Friday the Savior of mankind was humiliated and bruised, abused and reviled.
It was a Friday filled with devastating, consuming sorrow that gnawed at the souls of those who loved and honored the Son of God.
I think that of all the days since the beginning of this world’s history, that Friday was the darkest.
But the gloom of that sad day did not endure.
The despair did not linger because on Sunday, the resurrected Lord burst the bands of death. He escaped the grave and appeared gloriously triumphant as the Savior of all mankind.
And in an instant the eyes that had been filled with ever-flowing tears dried. The lips that had whispered prayers of distress and grief now filled the air with wondrous praise-for Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, stood before them as the first-fruits of the Resurrections, the proof that death is merely the beginning of a new and wondrous existence.
Each of us will have our own Fridays-those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays.
But I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death-Sunday will come.
In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come.
No matter our depression, no matter our grief, Sunday will come.
In this life or the next, Sunday will come."
Thursday, January 1, 2009
California New Years!!!
New Years isn't exactly my favorite holiday, but it was pretty fun. We were at a gas station filling up when we got invited to a hopping party. The kid who invited us was plastered and informed us that at his party there were 20 kegs, piles of weed and three drug dealers. Ha ha...we decided not to attend ;) Instead we headed back to Magic Mountain. Then on New Years Day we woke up, headed to Venice Beach and Santa Monica Pier where we rolled up our pants and had fun in the sun. Then we headed down to Hollywood where we met some stars, and walked down Hollywood Blvd. Overall it was pretty fun...our next stop is Vegas on the way home. Hilary and myself are going to try out the nickel slots and see if we can break even while Steph and Kt boots watch from 20 ft away...ha ha ha. I'll let you know how that goes. Anywho, here are some pictures. Hope you like them and HAPPY NEW YEARS!!!
P.S.
Danny comes home THIS YEAR :)
P.S.
Danny comes home THIS YEAR :)
Monday, December 29, 2008
Spontanious
Some friends and I got together Monday night and said "hey, let's go on a road trip." So, tomorrow (tuesday), after work we are driving to Cali!! Ha ha, yeah we are random and spontaneous but it should be fun. We are heading to Santa Clarita where we will spend New Year's Eve at Six Flags Magic Mountain and maybe visit the beach. We are poor so we will be living off of cup o' noodles, pb & j, and granola bars but what is new, right? Maybe we'll get fancy and hit up the McDonalds dollar menu :) Well, that is it for now. I'll update when I get back and hopefully have some good pictures and funny stories to blog about. Love ya'll!!
Colbs
Colbs
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Christmas time!
I have always enjoyed this time of year in the past. However last year and this one have been a little difficult because Danny is gone and I loved to share Christmas with the one I love. I have had a hard time not letting it get to me and not letting myself get depressed over it. One of the few things I have found that helps is to "count my blessings." So I thought it would be nice to post a list of a few things/people I am thankful for. Here it goes, in no particular order:
1. Danny for being such an amazing missionary, supporting me in all that I do, honoring the priesthood he holds, making so many memories with me, and for being my best friend and the love of my life!
2. My entire family especially for putting up with my whining and crying over the last little while.
3. My academy friends for helping me accomplish so much.
4. Dan's parents for making me feel like part of the famiy and helping me stay close to him while he is so far away.
5. Luke for all of the Sunday drives, Sunday chats, and concerts we've shared and for being the little brother I never had
6. Sam and Erica for always thinking of me and inviting me to do fun things, you guys make me feel so loved!
7. Whit and Jed for always being there for me and for having the cutest kids in the world...they are one of the few things that can always bring a smile to my face :)
8. My Young Women for always making me laugh, teaching me so much and letting me be their leader.
9. Austin and Carly for being one of the cutest couples around and painting a picture of what I want my future to be like.
10. My co-workers for listening to me and dealing with my bad attitude sometimes
11. My Academy teachers for teaching me how to be a cop and making me run until I puke and then some more ;)
12. My fellow Young Women leaders (Debra, Candi, Julie, Julie, Sarah, Bobbi, and Kelli) for being amazing examples to me and always being there for me and being amazing sychronized swimmers :) ha ha
13. Ali for being amazingly strong, keeping me company for the duration of two years and reminding me of how far I've come...hang in there Al!!
14. Katie Crablegs for being a good friend and reminiscing about our boys
15. Kent because he is a super awesome/strong kid and it's fun to be with him again
16. Hannah also for keeping me company and for enjoying Wal-Mart with me
17. Celeste for always talking me through things and giving me hope that tomorrow will come
18. My parents for letting me crash at their place still..and eat their food...and paying my insurance..and everything else
19. My car for not breaking down, getting me where I need to go and giving me a quiet place to think and ponder life
20. CSI for keeping me entertained on Monday, Wednesday and Thursday nights
21. NCIS for being the best show in the world and keeping me entertained on Tuesday nights (ha I am a dork yes)
22. My friends that are currently serving missions (Dan, Cody, Trav, Quinn, Clark) for taking two years and dedicating them to serving the Lord and doing it so diligently
23. My computer for making it possible for me to post this blog and also enjoy facebook
24. The Gospel for giving me standards and a foundation to base my life upon
25. The Yankees for spending billions of dollars and still sucking it up, showing us that when it comes down to it, it's all about team work...it's okay guys we will get them next year
26. The Scriptures for providing me a place to find answers and to grow closer the the Lord
27. My Grandpa Bylund because even though I was only two when you died, I know you are watching over me from heaven and I know you can hear me when I go visit you and talk to you..I can't wait to see you again :)
28. Elder Loveridge (Neil) for teaching Dan all he knows and for delivering the best Christmas present I have ever received
29. All the people in the Czech Republic for taking Dan in, feeding him and keeping him safe for me
30. The quilt Danny made for me because it keeps me warm and gives me something to snuggle with
31. The build-a-bear Danny gave me before he left because it gives me the chance to hear him tell me he loves me every night
32. All of my music because sometimes music is the only thing that keeps me sane
33. The Springville Police Department for letting me do so many ride-alongs with you guys and giving me a taste of what the job is really like
34. This Christmas because it's the last Christmas I have to celebrate without Danny!!!
35. All the other people/things that I have failed to mention because I am so richly blessed and when I take the time to look at the big picture...my life is wonderful
36.Most importantly my Heavenly Father and my Savior Jesus Christ for being the only constant in my life and providing me comfort when no one else could...and for giving me all of these blessings
Thank you to all of my friends and family...I'm sorry if I missed you. Know that I love you and I appreciate all y'all do for me and I wish you a very Merry Christmas!!
Much love,
Colbs.
P.S. Sorry this is so lengthy
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